Marriage is hard, but can someone be positive!

We got married April 15, 2011... yes a little over a month. Everyone, seriously, everyone that I tell starts with: "It's hard!" Where is all the love?!! I know our generation has the highest divorce rate, and most of my friends grew up in split homes. But man, can someone tell me...." Hey that is great, CONGRATS, i will be praying for ya'll to stand united when the world is trying to separate you!" Now that would be the appropriate response to someone who just was married a month ago! Although, I can excuse some people because they don't acknowledge the Lord in their life like my husband and I do. And that's the difference, that is why my marriage will work....Because I lean on the Lord, I will commit to praying, always, for my marriage. I know there will be really hard times, but I married this man for a reason. Because I trust the Lord, and i trust my husband to get through hard times together.